Feb
18

Do you find it annoying how some girls say they’re ugly than post loads of pictures of themselves on facebook?

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I find it so annoying when girls say how they’re really ugly, then will post loads of pictures of themselves posing on facebook. If they’re that self-concious they wouldn’t even take pictures of themselves let alone upload them onto facebook for everyone to see and judge. It’s just blatant attention seeking and fishing for compliments. One girl I know, has thousands of pictures of herself up, and will upload more saying things like eww i look hideous, then wait for people to be like nooo you look beautiful. Shes not ugly, but sometimes I feel like commenting saying she is just to shut her up and stop her from posting them. I don’t care if they’ve got low self-esteem get a feeling of worth somewhere else. I know I’m not a good-looking guy so therefore do not take pictures of myself pouting, and put them in an album entitled ‘me’ or ‘me making faces’. I’m sorry to sound harsh, but I’ve learnt to deal with my low self-esteem in other ways, such as trying to improve my personality rather than focusing on looks or just accepting this is the way I look. I just think these girls need to grow up, considering some of them that do this are like 18-22 years old.

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11 Comments

1

yes dont give them any attention

2

True story, I agree.

4

‘ugly than post’ should read ‘uglier than a post’.

5

Yes I am going to kill them all
They’re fishing for compliments, if they were really unhappy with themselves or the picture, they wouldn’t have posted it. They really need to grow up, I mean damn, enough already.

6

They are people called “Attention Whores”. They’re obviously just saying they’re ugly just so someone will say they’re not. Unless it’s someone actually worried about their looks, I just tell them that yes they are ugly. By the way, I know TONS of girls who do this.

7

Attention seekers – much like the people making outrageous or obviously offensive posts on this site

8

Yeah I agree I mean I don’t have much confidence looks wise and so I never had a fb account and then my bf made me feel beautiful so he’s the only one I show photos to. When your as self conscious as I was you can’t just have a whole album devoted to you.
Girls just want compliments thus social networking sites are LAME!

9

Yes, you are so right. I’ve got a few in mind right now and I want to say the exact same thing to them or when we’re with friends and they’re complaining about their appearance, I feel like embarrassing them by saying something like ‘yeh, that’s why you cam-whore and post a million pictures of yourself on fb.’ But in the end, I think it’s best not to say anything (but one day i’m sure i’ll say it).

10

yes its annoying, there just immature, they want others to complement them i guess because they like being told their hot, they just love the attention… you know it doesn’t mean their bad people though, its probably the parents fault their like that… looks shouldn’t be so important, like i bet 30 yrs ago most girls didn’t care if they left the house without any make-up on, or with their hair done perfect, etc… just think of all time in their life that’s wasted by trying to make themselves look perfect… honesty just ignore them, who cares, and u don’t want people hating u 4 commeting that she is ugly, do u?

11

I’m know I’m going to get many thumbs down for this, but I’m going to say it anyway. Yes, your right. But there are many differences between boys and girls, and the importance they put on looks is one of them. I know they both care about looks, but girls generally directly relate looks to worth. It’s great that you find other ways of proving your worth, but why does everybody need to be like you?

And what about this “get a feeling of worth somewhere else”? Your right, it sounds harsh, I thought you feeling of worth should come from your friends. If I was your friend, and I knew you felt this annoyed, I would remove you as a friend (then we would probably both be happy.) If it annoys you just ignore it. I’m in my mid 30′s but I have a few teenage, or early 20′s friends on facebook. And I don’t always agree with what they say (I often don’t) but I just ignore them.

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